married w/children.. Oo, or not.. ;p Options

[DivA]

how does everyone here feel about marriage; also, is it within your life's plan to be married & have children in the upcoming future - or, do you feel that marriage is not for you?

in essence, where do you stand?

[unitself]

Well, speaking as somone who has been married now for a long time. It's safe to say that I am very very happily married to a person I cannot even consider living without. That said, i have no problem with people not being married but living together forever. I didn't get married because of taxes or children or church or any other reason other than I really wanted to proclaim my feelings for my wife to all my friends and family.
Kids? Completely other story. I'm not a big fan of them. I don't hate kids, I just don't really understand them. maybe it's because I am nothing more than an oversized kid myself. Plus, there are alot of things about this world that I don't want to burden a child with. There was a time when my wife and I talked about having a baby, but the more we talked about it the more we agreed that it was just not for us. If we change our minds, we still have a few more years, and there is always adoption.

ok DivA, like always... don't ask unless you are gonna tell yourself.